007 Self Love & Discipline
Martine de Petter is a Grandmaster in Tao and Qi Gong, Black Belt 3rd Dan in Karate. She is a Doctor in Chinese Medicine and a specialist in Morphological Blood Analysis. Martine runs a well-established practice in Ibiza helping people to find themselves and recuperate their health. What we discussed Follow your heart and trust.…
006 Marriage in Time of Crisis
Caroline Minelli accompanies loving wives who have had enough of feeling alone and who finally want to get the love they have always wanted from their husband. With or without the help of their partners, we find ways to turn their marriage into the relationship of their dreams. Together we find ways out of hopelessness…
Reacting vs Responding
The other day my colleague Vincent Clohessy and I showed in a role play on a Facebook live, how communication can fall into blaming, shaming, avoiding responsibility, defending yourself, being abusive. I started the conversation out of anger, telling Vincent what he did wrong. He got triggered, started to defend himself and to remember all…
How I healed some of my fears in Egypt
Last month in Egypt, I faced one of my deepest fears. Since early childhood I was afraid of darkness, and claustrophobic in narrow rooms and in big crowds of people. That kept me from experiencing a lot of exciting things during my whole life. Entering the first pyramid, I turned around after 3 meters. I…
Good sex can be learned! – The Clitoris
The media inundates us with permissive forms. Nudity is everywhere. So you would think that we are free to deal with sexuality, to talk about it openly. But far from it! Speaking about often dominates with boredom, frustration and even speechlessness in the bedroom. How can we have fulfilled sexuality? Sex education, if it exists…
How Alive Do You Want To Be?
I’ve had the pleasure of having a dear friend of mine visit me on the island from Australia these last few days. Dr. Vinnie Monaco is on his ‘Aliveness Tour’ throughout Europe and the United States. Vinnie is a former Chippendale stripper! He started his tour on Ibiza at Santa Eulalia del Rio with a…
A Bride Without Orgasm
Guest article from Alexandra Haas – Special Moments, Zürich The girls were really on it. They were enjoying their hen night, the Prosecco flowed freely, the catering was delicious, and everyone was in a playful mood. They had booked the deluxe package and were enjoying it to the fullest. I tried to keep up though,…
How I Got Rid of Old Beliefs Having an Orgasm
“Are you ready for change?” She asked me. Immediately I said YES! The aim was to eliminate one of my debilitating beliefs about money. Which had more control of me, than I would have preferred to have admitted. She gave me a few simple tasks for the afternoon: 1. Do something which is really good…
You Can Learn a Lot from Your Clients
As a coach, I bring people into action! The best way is to start with small projects which you can learn from and thereby test the things that you think you want to do; that they are the real deal. And so do I! The project I want to talk about in this blogpost is…
So When Is It Wrong To Talk About Sex And Pleasure In The Same Instance?
I give myself permission to talk about sex as though it’s really important – as important as politics and elections and human rights and stopping global warming and ending poverty and curing cancer. SEX IS THAT IMPORTANT – Barbara Carrellas “So When Is It Wrong…